I will be honest, this week hasn't really been that
special. For us as missionaries, we still go to work even if its during
the holidays. It's hard work, there doesn't seem to be a day off.
It's rewarding nonetheless. Last week, I talked to Gracie and Walter
about their Christmas, and they said it was fine, they just went to a
party (I think work-related) for a few minutes and decided that it was
enough for them and they went home to spend Christmas quietly. They
really enjoyed it that way. They are pretty awesome people, very chill
and are comfortable to talk about anything.
Christmas was fun, The highlight was talking on skype. I don't think I
used it before. Later on in the day we went to the bishop's house and
spent time with their family. The day after, it seemed the weather
changed once again overnight. It got really cold, my ears were pretty
frozen, so we went to a nearby store to get a beanie, and I've been
wearing it ever since.
So since it is a winter break, there are alot of people out of town,
so we didn't do much. But we did get to meet some people. For the past
couple months, I have thought about how to describe Tuscaloosa. I will
be here in this city for another 6 weeks. I've noticed that the
members of the church are really nice and love to work with us
missionaries, and they have helped out alot. At the same time, there is
a lot of tracting involved. Most of the time we meet someone, most
likely baptist, and they really just want to bash against us. We run
into a lot of crazy people, and it tends to bring a headache trying to
explain doctrine to them. Even when bearing a testimony may seem
effective to bring the conversation to a close, they still want to
"prove" us wrong.
It varies from house to house, there are alot of nice people and alot
of crazy people, and some people that have both qualities.
Happy New Year everybody, don't party too hard
Jacob Miklich
This blog is managed by his awesome sister. Please don't think he is spending his mission blogging. :) His emails home are copied and pasted here and all comments will be forwarded on to him. If you would like to write to him personally, here is the address for all mail. Letters are very welcomed. :)
Elder Jacob Miklich
3100 Lorna Rd., Ste 102
Birmingham, AL 35216
There is also a blog for the Birmingham Alabama Mission if you would like to know more about the going ons in the mission as a whole: alabamamissionupdate.blogspot.com
Enjoy!
Monday, December 31, 2012
Monday, December 17, 2012
pictures!
Attached are some pictures.
1. from left to right: me, Walter, Gracie, and Elder Peters
2. Me, Sister Edna Nelson, Walter, Gracie, Willie Mae (Gracie's older sister), Elder Peters, and Bishop Thompson
3. Elder Peters' Christmas tree
4. Elder Osiemo, Me, and Elder Lacour (my last companion who went home in November)
5. Elder Peters and I.
-Jacob
Hello everyone,
So Mom received a phone call, so I will talk more about that haha.
This
week has been quite a surprise. We set Dec 15th for Gracie, 65, to be
baptized. So last tuesday we had to meet with them to sort out
everything needed for the baptism: meaning teaching more commandments
(which was pretty funny to teach tithing btw, we asked her if she would
live the law of tithing and she looked at us like we were crazy and said
of course!) the interview for baptism, and how the baptism will be
performed. It seemed that we had alot of things to do last tuesday, and
on top of all that we wanted to set a date for her husband Walter, 58.
He has been coming to church and has been motivating Gracie to
investigate this church, we wanted him to prepare for Dec 29th so he has
time to give up smoking. He then said he wanted to be baptized the
same day as Gracie and would give up smoking then and there, he had alot
of faith and would give up anything to be closer to his wife. So both
of them were baptized last saturday and confirmed yesterday. Walter is
this big guy and they wanted me to baptize him. Gracie wanted Elder
Peters to baptized her. I'll share a picture. The baptism was such a
spiritual experience, alot of people showed up including Gracie's older
sister Willie Mae, who has been a member for I think 20 years, and her
good friend Edna Nelson. Gracie wanted Willie Mae to speak at her
baptism, which was very powerful. Sister Edna Nelson wanted to get my
mother's number and Elder Peters' Mom's number to thank them. So I
think thats where the phone call came from. They wanted me to keep in
touch when I'm done with my 2 years, I think I gave my home address.
Last tuesday Elder Peters and I moved into another apartment
which is on the other side of Tuscaloosa. Its a pretty convienent spot
for missionary work, pretty close to members. Plus it is much better
the old one. (it has a much larger water heater). This is preparation
for the many sister missionaries that we will receive over the next
year. (we will have by the end of next summer 138 sister missionaries,
and 112 Elders).
If you want to see more about whats going on in this mission, I
would invite you to check out our blog: alabamamissionupdate.blogspot.com
I must say there are many people in the christmas spirit, there's so many houses with decorations.
Take care yall,
peace love and happiness,
Jacob
Monday, December 10, 2012
Its very nice to hear from what everybody has said.
Its
cool to see jeremy's photos. For a second I forgot what he looks
like... nah just joke. Thats a pretty cool paisley tie though. The
other missionaries sitting next to me was looking and said whos that guy
and why is he wearing your nametag? haha
I feel like I should be putting up pictures up as well. We had a
baptism last saturday, and we did take a picture. So I got to find where
that picture is at. Hopefully I will attach it to this email.
Next
saturday there is going to be another baptism, which I am looking
forward to. Elder Peters and I began teaching her. We found out that
she has quite a religious background: Baptist, Jehovah's witness, and
probably another one. The last church she went to was Jehovah's
witness, which would be a huge change in conversion becoming LDS. But
she hasn't gone to any church in like over 20 years or so. She had bad
experiences with those churches. The way we found her was that she was a
referral, someone told us to contact her. She is really nice, and
likes to talk about anything, its never a dull moment with her and her
husband. Her sister is a lds member and she has helped alot with
talking to her. She is getting baptized this saturday. Her husband
said he wants to eventually get baptized, he just needs to give
up smoking. Their family is coming over for the baptism.
At church there was a good christmas program. Its a little early
since many students will be going home for the holidays, so it was done
last sunday so they can be there. It was a good turn out.
Well take care everybody,
JacobMonday, December 3, 2012
Yeah I am here in Tuscaloosa, AL. Its
weird, Elder Peters just got a referral from his family, so its kind of
funny how people back home are giving referrals as well. We would love
to meet them.
So this is what happened: we were biking home from a far away
place towards home. Elder Peters is a crazy fast biker. and so we went
across this busy intersection, and the way the curb is formed you would
have to bike in a S line. At fast speed it didnt occur to me that it
would be difficult. (and since its in winter season there were leaves
on the ground which made it slippery.) So for the most part I
accomplished the first part of the S, but my bike swerved and my pedal
hit the ground, the bike fell and I flew forward. My right hand got a
cut, left thigh a scrape, and I could barely move my left arm. (there is
this pretty cool straight white line on the corner of the ground in
front of Checkers, a burger place). I stood up and became instantly
light headed, so I had to sit down/lay down. I wasnt going to faint but
it seemed like I was going there if I stood up imediately again. After
a while I was able to get up and walk home. Thats how the accident
happened, on Thursday.
The next day I called the nurse specialist (who is awesome btw),
told her what happened and what I can do with my arm. We then found a
nearby hospital to see if anything is broken. It was a long wait there.
I had a hard time trying to figure out my insurance info, and I knew
Dad knows it but I cant just call home to ask for it. So Sister May
(nurse specialist) said use their phone to call home to get it, so thats
where that call came from. Nothing is broken. My left elbow is just
sprained. Which is much better now, I can fully extend it and eat with
it now. (It was hard for the last couple days since I'm lefthanded.)
I was told to call president Holzapfel about how I am doing, so
I did. He asked "would a call to your mom help?" I thought for a
second and said a call to my mom would always help, but I dont think it
is needed and I can wait for emailing and Christmas. He then said over
the years of being a mission president I have found out that whenever
some injury happens to a missionary, their parents would expect the
worst. Just call your mom and say you're doing fine, had an accident,
but will be fine in a couple days, keep it as short as you can. I
thought, woah ok haha. So it was nice to hear mom and dad on the phone
call.
I haven't figured out the time the skype call will be yet. but I'll let you know.
President Holzapfel emailed us some pretty good insight from a bag of
apples. Sister Holzapfel was making an apple cake for a senior couple
that will be returning. The bag, in whose apples they used for baking,
said at the bottom, "Meets or Exceeds US Extra Fancy Standards."
Washington apples, I hear, are among the best apples grown in the
world. The farmer has deemed them as "extra fancy" for they not only
have met the standards, or guidlines for being good apples, but have
exceeded them. President went on to say how this applies to
missionaries. Some questions he asked said:
"Would your investigators say you meet the missionary guidelines?
Would Church members say you meet these guidelines?
Would local Priesthood leaders say you meet them?
More importantly, would the Lord say you meet the guidelines He established for His missionaries?
And one more question, would any of them say you "exceeded" the guidelines?"
This principle used for missionaries can be taken to life
challenges. For it was told that a mission, is only life, in
miniatures.
"It would be wonderful if your spouse said you not only met righteous
marriage guidelines for a spouse, but exceed them. It would be wonderful
if your children and grandchildren said you not only met, but exceeded
guidelines for good parents and grandparents.
What about your employment? Wouldn't it be great if your employer
always felt you not only met, but exceeded guidelines for your
employment? Would you get a raise or promotion? Would you keep your job
when others were let go during a downturn in the economy?
I promise you will be blessed and find more happiness when you not only meet guidelines in your life, but exceed them"
I thought it was good insight from president Holzapfel, so I really
just copied and pasted what he said. I see it to be true.
Tis the season to be jolly,
Jacob
Monday, November 26, 2012
Alot has happened this weekend. I dont know where to start.
Most of the missionaries in Tuscaloosa are staying in Tuscaloosa. We just needed a new missionary since Elder Lacour is gone. So now I am with Elder Peters, (a utah mormon), which a really nice change, he following the rules. Elder Osiemo is with Elder Gale. Which is very interesting to me because Elder Gale was somebody that was with me in the MTC.
Happy Thanksgiving everybody. For us, we stayed at members home. Our choices were either the Mays, or the Blowers. One set of missionaries would go to one. Bro. Mays said who likes Pumpkin pie? Nobody had a preference so I said I do. He then said that I am going to the Blowers ...lol I found out they don't really like pumpking pie or any fruit pie. So it worked out, I didn't care. With the Blowers we had a feast: Turkey (of course), mashed potatoes, homemade macaroni and cheese, bread rolls, develed eggs, some kind of marshmellow salad (it was good), and ...green bean casserole. It actually took me by surprise since I was talking about it earlier that day. It felt like I was at home. There were a bunch of pies as well (pumpkin, apple, chocolate, peanut butter and chocolate). The other Elders appeared to have a good time too, they said they saw the table and it was filled with pies, bro Mays said we take out dessert pretty seriously lol. Thanksgiving was great, we played a game that was i think called retumpki which is kind of like phase 10, and we also played the life inspiring game of life.
Its kind of hard to do missionary work during the holidays because we know that everybody is either away from town, or coming in from somewhere to visit family. I wouldn't want to bother them so we really would just bike down some streets and just talk to people that are not at home. It gets actually pretty effective because we did find some people that would be interested. It seems more appropriate then just knocking on their front door.
We met someone a while ago through tracting. Her name is Shirley. We offered a blessing and asked what we could bless her for. She said she wanted to quit smoking and that she had back pains. She is one that has a lot of faith, because she refuses any medication and just relies upon God's help. So she appreciated the blessing very much. We go to her place occasionally to visit her. She is such a sweet lady. We have to talk to her at the doorstep since an other man is usually somewhere out. The next time we talked to her was about the restoration. For the most part she knows what we shared, until we talk about Joseph Smith and the Book of Mormon. She was fascinated about it. We gave her a restoration pamphlet and a copy of the book of mormon. The next time we met, she said she was amazed at how much of this has been hidden from the world. Shes been comparing the Book with the Bible using the footnotes. Its just a challenge to get her to church. Her sister takes her to a church called Double Portion. (Im amazed at how many churches there are here in the south.) Which meets at the same time as ours. So we just got to talk to her sister and hope that she is receptive to our message. We got her in our prayers.
There are a bunch of other people we are visiting that just have a problem getting to church. Some just have a challenge getting up on time.
I do feel that the more I read the scripture through the lens of a missionary, I am more capable of sharing a story that would apply to the individual. Like one time I shared the story of Nathanael in John 1 to someone, and it was just off the top of my head, and Elder Peters backed me up since he read that story that very day. The story basically explains that Philip received an assignment to invite Nathanael to see Jesus. Sort of a missionary experience where he simply says "come and see"
Well thank you all for all your support, hope you guys are experiencing you weeks better than ever. I received some letters from pleasant hill, thanks to the Phillips.
"take care now y'all"
Jacob
Most of the missionaries in Tuscaloosa are staying in Tuscaloosa. We just needed a new missionary since Elder Lacour is gone. So now I am with Elder Peters, (a utah mormon), which a really nice change, he following the rules. Elder Osiemo is with Elder Gale. Which is very interesting to me because Elder Gale was somebody that was with me in the MTC.
Happy Thanksgiving everybody. For us, we stayed at members home. Our choices were either the Mays, or the Blowers. One set of missionaries would go to one. Bro. Mays said who likes Pumpkin pie? Nobody had a preference so I said I do. He then said that I am going to the Blowers ...lol I found out they don't really like pumpking pie or any fruit pie. So it worked out, I didn't care. With the Blowers we had a feast: Turkey (of course), mashed potatoes, homemade macaroni and cheese, bread rolls, develed eggs, some kind of marshmellow salad (it was good), and ...green bean casserole. It actually took me by surprise since I was talking about it earlier that day. It felt like I was at home. There were a bunch of pies as well (pumpkin, apple, chocolate, peanut butter and chocolate). The other Elders appeared to have a good time too, they said they saw the table and it was filled with pies, bro Mays said we take out dessert pretty seriously lol. Thanksgiving was great, we played a game that was i think called retumpki which is kind of like phase 10, and we also played the life inspiring game of life.
Its kind of hard to do missionary work during the holidays because we know that everybody is either away from town, or coming in from somewhere to visit family. I wouldn't want to bother them so we really would just bike down some streets and just talk to people that are not at home. It gets actually pretty effective because we did find some people that would be interested. It seems more appropriate then just knocking on their front door.
We met someone a while ago through tracting. Her name is Shirley. We offered a blessing and asked what we could bless her for. She said she wanted to quit smoking and that she had back pains. She is one that has a lot of faith, because she refuses any medication and just relies upon God's help. So she appreciated the blessing very much. We go to her place occasionally to visit her. She is such a sweet lady. We have to talk to her at the doorstep since an other man is usually somewhere out. The next time we talked to her was about the restoration. For the most part she knows what we shared, until we talk about Joseph Smith and the Book of Mormon. She was fascinated about it. We gave her a restoration pamphlet and a copy of the book of mormon. The next time we met, she said she was amazed at how much of this has been hidden from the world. Shes been comparing the Book with the Bible using the footnotes. Its just a challenge to get her to church. Her sister takes her to a church called Double Portion. (Im amazed at how many churches there are here in the south.) Which meets at the same time as ours. So we just got to talk to her sister and hope that she is receptive to our message. We got her in our prayers.
There are a bunch of other people we are visiting that just have a problem getting to church. Some just have a challenge getting up on time.
I do feel that the more I read the scripture through the lens of a missionary, I am more capable of sharing a story that would apply to the individual. Like one time I shared the story of Nathanael in John 1 to someone, and it was just off the top of my head, and Elder Peters backed me up since he read that story that very day. The story basically explains that Philip received an assignment to invite Nathanael to see Jesus. Sort of a missionary experience where he simply says "come and see"
Well thank you all for all your support, hope you guys are experiencing you weeks better than ever. I received some letters from pleasant hill, thanks to the Phillips.
"take care now y'all"
Jacob
Monday, November 19, 2012
Hello!
This week I really enjoyed being with the other missionaries. Most of these 2 months we have been working with college students, and I found out that its good to teach them, but most people would not really act on the message we share. This past week we met with people that have their own place, and are actually looking for a change in their lives. So I think this week was really productive.
Thanksgiving is coming up, we will be with some members eating.
Transfers are this wednesday, I will be staying here in Tuscaloosa.
Well, much love
Jacob
This week I really enjoyed being with the other missionaries. Most of these 2 months we have been working with college students, and I found out that its good to teach them, but most people would not really act on the message we share. This past week we met with people that have their own place, and are actually looking for a change in their lives. So I think this week was really productive.
Thanksgiving is coming up, we will be with some members eating.
Transfers are this wednesday, I will be staying here in Tuscaloosa.
Well, much love
Jacob
Monday, November 12, 2012
hows it going yall? (I say that on purpose, I dont really have the southern accent) Most of the missionaries here have been here for a while and they don't have an accent either. Some do though, but I think it is because they want to.
Last week we had zone conference. All the missionaries in the Bessemer zone met in the Bessemer building. One thing I noticed was that these missionaries on average are very tall. The average height is like 6'. I'm surrounded by towers. We could just start a basketball team and start dominating. Anyway, we learned a lot from this meeting, the mission president spoke to us - he is very bold and loud, an excellent speaker for an area like this. The main thing that they trained us about was to give a blessing to the people that we approach: members, investigators that we have been teaching, or simple strangers when we meet them at their door step. It gets pretty awkward when we offer a blessing to random strangers. It is a interesting tool to try out though, it brings out the two extremes: "a blessing? sure! come on in" or "what did you say? your a cult get out of here!" nah we dont get much of the latter because people here are nice. We normally just get a "no thanks" type response. Or they don't really acknowledge that we are there to give a blessing, but they see our shirt, tie, and name tag and think that we are part of another religion, therefore we can't give a blessing.
Well, it sometimes works. we have been seeing this lady name Lora. I think i mentioned her before, she lives in a ghetto apartment surrounded by, to put it blunt, 'evil people'. We met here, and we always ask her how she is doing. She always responds: not good. And she has reasons. I wont go into details, but she has been having severe problems regarding her health, her family, and her living situation. We didnt know how to respond. Elder Lacour said that he will share a scripture and that I will leave a blessing. This happened yesterday, I don't even remember the scripture he shared. I asked her if she believes that we have the priesthood authority. she said of course. So I acted by the priesthood authority to leave a blessing. I blessed her health, her family, her living situation, and that she will be able to bear the struggles that she is going through. I also mentioned that Christ peace will enter this place.
In the zone training when they taught us to give blessings, they shared the story when Jesus usually greeted people, he said "shallom" which by interpretation means "peace, be unto you".
As I closed the blessing, she burst into tears. This person, like most of us, cant control what happens next week. There wasn't much we could do to help, but we knew God could. As we departed she said, I feel much better.
It was a good feeling.
I must be honest, I have grown to hate my companion. :) Much of the decisions he makes I don't agree with. The fact that he is leaving this wednesday brings joy to me lol. He's from LA, CA area about to go to college in utah. He talks about football and politics alot. He is very conservative. Which I guess helps in this area because football and politics are huge topics here. But I tend to forget that I am a missionary.
Argh, im just mad mainly because of what happened yesterday. After that big spiritual moment, we continued to tract university village. We decided to go see someone we have been teaching. His roomate showed up and basically said i dont want to be a jerk but we're not interested go away. It made me mad cuz his roomate kicked us out. I was a little flustered that night, and still am a little.
This week we will try to start focusing on getting members to teach with us. After wednesday, I will be in a trio until transfers next week. I am excited about that, I ll be with Elders Osiemo and Peters. 3 companions in one transfer.
We got a referral. She came to stake conference with us. Gracie and Walter. Walter encouraged her to check out this church, Gracie's sister is a member and has been studying the scriptures with her. They are excited for us to teach them.
On a spiritual note, one of the speakers at stake conference was President Archibald, who is an institute teacher. One of the things he said was that we need to sit up straight and square, like a fighter pilot about hit the eject button, because if we are a little off, the seat that is about to launch you at like 200 mph may break your back. In comparison, he said we must be ready cuz you never know when you're thrown in a position where things are moving too fast to handle. He related to how much progress this mission is building, especially with the age change. Next year, the number of missionaries are going to double.
Anyway, take care yall
Elder Miklich
Last week we had zone conference. All the missionaries in the Bessemer zone met in the Bessemer building. One thing I noticed was that these missionaries on average are very tall. The average height is like 6'. I'm surrounded by towers. We could just start a basketball team and start dominating. Anyway, we learned a lot from this meeting, the mission president spoke to us - he is very bold and loud, an excellent speaker for an area like this. The main thing that they trained us about was to give a blessing to the people that we approach: members, investigators that we have been teaching, or simple strangers when we meet them at their door step. It gets pretty awkward when we offer a blessing to random strangers. It is a interesting tool to try out though, it brings out the two extremes: "a blessing? sure! come on in" or "what did you say? your a cult get out of here!" nah we dont get much of the latter because people here are nice. We normally just get a "no thanks" type response. Or they don't really acknowledge that we are there to give a blessing, but they see our shirt, tie, and name tag and think that we are part of another religion, therefore we can't give a blessing.
Well, it sometimes works. we have been seeing this lady name Lora. I think i mentioned her before, she lives in a ghetto apartment surrounded by, to put it blunt, 'evil people'. We met here, and we always ask her how she is doing. She always responds: not good. And she has reasons. I wont go into details, but she has been having severe problems regarding her health, her family, and her living situation. We didnt know how to respond. Elder Lacour said that he will share a scripture and that I will leave a blessing. This happened yesterday, I don't even remember the scripture he shared. I asked her if she believes that we have the priesthood authority. she said of course. So I acted by the priesthood authority to leave a blessing. I blessed her health, her family, her living situation, and that she will be able to bear the struggles that she is going through. I also mentioned that Christ peace will enter this place.
In the zone training when they taught us to give blessings, they shared the story when Jesus usually greeted people, he said "shallom" which by interpretation means "peace, be unto you".
As I closed the blessing, she burst into tears. This person, like most of us, cant control what happens next week. There wasn't much we could do to help, but we knew God could. As we departed she said, I feel much better.
It was a good feeling.
I must be honest, I have grown to hate my companion. :) Much of the decisions he makes I don't agree with. The fact that he is leaving this wednesday brings joy to me lol. He's from LA, CA area about to go to college in utah. He talks about football and politics alot. He is very conservative. Which I guess helps in this area because football and politics are huge topics here. But I tend to forget that I am a missionary.
Argh, im just mad mainly because of what happened yesterday. After that big spiritual moment, we continued to tract university village. We decided to go see someone we have been teaching. His roomate showed up and basically said i dont want to be a jerk but we're not interested go away. It made me mad cuz his roomate kicked us out. I was a little flustered that night, and still am a little.
This week we will try to start focusing on getting members to teach with us. After wednesday, I will be in a trio until transfers next week. I am excited about that, I ll be with Elders Osiemo and Peters. 3 companions in one transfer.
We got a referral. She came to stake conference with us. Gracie and Walter. Walter encouraged her to check out this church, Gracie's sister is a member and has been studying the scriptures with her. They are excited for us to teach them.
On a spiritual note, one of the speakers at stake conference was President Archibald, who is an institute teacher. One of the things he said was that we need to sit up straight and square, like a fighter pilot about hit the eject button, because if we are a little off, the seat that is about to launch you at like 200 mph may break your back. In comparison, he said we must be ready cuz you never know when you're thrown in a position where things are moving too fast to handle. He related to how much progress this mission is building, especially with the age change. Next year, the number of missionaries are going to double.
Anyway, take care yall
Elder Miklich
Monday, November 5, 2012
It didnt
really rain much over here. I actually havent seen any rain since I got
here. There were a lot of people out trick or treating near the nice
looking apartments. We didn't go tracting though, haha that would have
been weird.
What we did was that on tuesday, the day before halloween there
was a trunk or treat activity at the church building, so we went to
that. There was also a chili cook off that people would vote for who
had the best chili. Some of it was hot. A lot of people dressed up in
costumes. The bishop had this awesome sherlock holmes outfit. On
halloween was another trunk or treat activity but it was for another
ward. We went to both activities. We got a lot of candy. We actually
couldn't get much missionary work done, frankly I don't care. Elder
Lacour wanted to leave though, I don't think he likes halloween. Oh
well.
Its interesting how the origin of halloween has changed so much
from how the U.S. celebrates it. Halloween came from the Celtic
tradition, it use to be called "Sow'een" which meant "hallows eve" or
all-saints day. It was believed that the day started with night and
ended with the day. It was the day out of the year where spirits would
come and visit us from the spirit world and also we could visit the
spirit world. In order to invite good spirits, we would decorate our
house and guide the pathway with jack o lanterns. Plus, in order to
save us from harm, we would blend in with the dead by dressing up in
costumes. Of course that changed now since you see people dressing up
as captain america, or alladin. But that was the tradition.
I find it interesting how in spanish it called el dia de los
muertos. Because that is basically what it is meant for. Nov 1st is
hallows day, the day to think about your dead loved ones, or the dead in
general. Since many people here treat halloween as a party day, we
don't really have a chance to segue the discussion to missionary work
for the dead. We did have fun nonetheless.
This past week, I'm sorry to say, it was a really bad day. We
couldn't really do much on Tuesday or Wednesday because of the holiday.
My companion was getting stressed out about getting his birth
certificate/ driver's license/ whatever that was needed to be able to go
home on time. He leaves on Nov 21st. Good thing was that he got that
done, we had to go to the dmv a couple times. Thurs we continued to try
working on this apartment we visited for the past 2 weeks and still far
from being done. We parked our bikes and some worker, i'm guessing a
janitor or something, came up to us and asked us what do we belong to?
We told him the church that we represented, and he told us basically
that that is soliciting in our book, we are going to have to ask you to
leave. Me and my companion were thinking "soliciting?" Soliciting
means you are standing around for the attempt to get gain, money, the
act of selling something. We aren't selling anything, if any thing, we
are giving stuff away. Out loud, since we didn't want to argue, we told
him ok so we left.
So we got kicked out of that apartment. The next day, sort of
the same thing happened. We were visiting somebody near home in an
apartment. We parked our bikes, and someone comes up to us and says,
"unless you guys are visiting someone you are going to have to leave."
We said we did, and that we understood. Luckily we already visited
everyone in that apartment. We sort of go by a missionary rule: keep
tracting until you get kicked out. haha The person we were visiting is
pretty promising though, he had a lot of questions and wants to go to
church.
So we got kicked out of an apartment twice in a row this week. It was odd.
One of our investigators that we were teaching all of a sudden
dropped us. She said she enjoyed our discussions, and the philosophies
of the church, she feels like she became a better person, just an
overall good feeling. " But I need time right now, there is just some
things I don't agree with." We said alright, let us know if you want to
talk again. She knew that Joseph Smith existed, she wasn't sure if he
was a prophet though. We were bummed out. We were so sure that she was
going to be baptized. She is from Columbia, I connected with her,
haha. oh well.
In 1 corinthians 14: 10 it says something like, there are many,
as it may, many voices in the world. and none of them is without
significance.
Everybody has a decision, there opinion is worth something,
especially when you share it with somebody. The investigators that we
see may benefit from what we say, but the answers that they will get for
their questions may be more powerful if it came from somebody that they
trust.
Elder Lacour and I had a rough week last week. But I am still
smiling. Its good to point out the low weeks so that you can point out
the high weeks.
your good friend,
Elder Jacob Miklich
Monday, October 29, 2012
I'm seeing more and more decorations here. (Oh btw, Alabama won,
yet people are like: psh I knew that was going to happen. People are so
prideful here) One time Elder LaCour and I were tracting this one
apartment complex. I saw through a window that there was a bloody hand
reaching through the blinds and I said "woah dude watch out!" I saw
Elder Lacour jump like 5 feet cuz he thought there was going to be a
spider or something. haha he was so mad.
As far as finding new investigators, this week was not that
eventful. Most people focused on preparing for the game. Last saturday
was crazy. People everywhere. You'd feel like a fish swimming
upstream. I could not ride my bike that far without getting off and
walking. We really couldn't do any work. We could have talked to
people and gave them cards, but they most likely would have thrown them
away. So for the most part we were in our home, with the other
missionaries in our area: Elder Osiemo (OCMO) and Elder Peters.
We have been biking and walking alot this past week. I became
really exhausted. It feels like my heels are no longer on my feet
anymore. The past couple weeks I wake up tired, feeling like sleep has
not done that much to regain strength. So one night I had a deep
personal prayer, wishing to have the strength to gain my heels back. I
think this was friday night. The next day it almost felt like a
miracle. Every muscle in my body felt like they got restored or
something. Personal prayer can be powerful.
This week we will plan on tracting more. But for the most part
try and contact the people we already visited that looks interested. We
do have quite a few.
Have a good week!
I have a lot
of "favorite scriptures" but I guess the one I like a lot is 2
Corinthians 7: 10-11. (Godly sorrow vs. worldly sorrow).
blessings,
Elder Jacob Miklich
Tuesday, October 23, 2012
It sounds really exciting at home. The great pumpkin is
manifesting itself once more this year. People are getting into the
spirit of Halloween. Over here, not that many houses are decorated. If
anything they are getting excited for the football game to happen this
saturday, which is a homegame playing Mississippi state. Both Alabama
and Mississippi state are undefeated, so us missionaries are pretty
scared to see what will happen this saturday. Here they have parades
and other things for the occasion.
As far as Halloween goes, I'm pretty excited. The Tuscaloosa
ward will have a trunk or treat on oct 30th. I don't think we will be
tracting.
Jeremy's letter reminded me of what happened this
week. So we were looking through the area book to find people to
teach. There are very few, and its kind of hard to contact them. So we
were looking through the "former investigators" to find out why the
missionaries decided to drop these people. Most of the reasons were
contacting problems: couldn't get a hold of them, address doesn't exist,
not progressing, etc. But then there was a reason that said: "received
a call from him and he said 'leave me alone!'" And I was like dang,
what did missionaries do to scare them away like that haha. Then there
was one that said: "I have received an answer to my prayers, and it
is not to get baptized." ...So we don't have many people from the area
book to teach. But mainly because the previous missionaries don't know
how to put down the correct address. We put in one of the
investigator's address in the gps, and it lead us to the middle of
nowhere lol. We thought, she doesn't live in a tent does she?
So, for most of our time we have been tracting. Believe it or
not, we have been really successful. Last week we almost taught 40
lessons. Most of them may not be that effective but at least we planted
a lot of seeds, and help them develop their faith somewhat. Probably
only 3 of that 40 are new investigators. I've been told that a lesson
is just teaching at least one doctrine and sending an invitation.
This place is strange. Half of it is high-class student housing,
but right next to them are the projects. Just across the street from
us is this beat up brickhouse apartments. We tracted them one night and
found out it is filled with "sorcerers, murderers, whoremongers, etc"
lol We actually found one that straight told us he is involved in a
gang and that he worships Satan. We asked him why and he said "just
cuz" lol he was so high. Among all these people, most of them said
we're not interested, occasionally we would run into a baptist and
talking to them would get nowhere. But we did knock into a door. A boy
answered. I asked is your mom or dad home? He said yea hold on. He
was watching adventure time btw. A lady named Lora came up and invited
us in. Our conversation with her was very interesting, we knew this
experience was going to be different cuz she let us in. We found out
her Grandfather, uncle, and nephew recently passed away before we taught
her anything. We taught her the plan of salvation which explains to us
where we came from, why we are here, and where we are going. We could
tell this message brought so much comfort to her life. We gave her a
book of mormon. She seems like someone who would want to know more.
So if I could give any advice for someone who would want to go on
a mission. (sam lol) I would say do it. Don't expect it to be this
exciting experience where everybody is happy and what not. It's only
like that in the mtc lol. Serving a mission is hard. It is very
humbling. I realized really quickly how much I do not know. Especially
when teaching. One time it got to the point where I cried because I
thought I was so inadequate in teaching. Now I don't even know why I
cried. That's a silly reason to cry. God knows we are not perfect. He
is just happy to see how far we came. It took another missionary to
tell me that. So if you want to go on a mission, do it. You will grow
so much even if you think you didn't help anybody else grow. I also
hear that it blesses our families. Elder Osiemo, he is from Kenya, said
ever since he has been on a mission 4 people from his family got
baptized, which was a surprise to him because last time he saw them they
were crazy haha. Elder Osiemo reminds me of jt sometimes.
Its great to see this family grow together so much, especially this time of the year. Happiness is all that matters.
Congratulations Melissa
Elder Jacob Miklich
(I got more time to email this time yes!)
Monday, October 15, 2012
Hello Family,
I just read melissa's letter that she sent
a couple minutes ago. She's engaged? Whaat? Thats exciting!
congratulations. I will be waiting for the date. I hear from dad that
Jerr and I are getting ties for the occasion? That would be awesome.
Alabama is such an interesting place. My first area is Tuscaloosa,
AL. My companion, Elder Lacour, told me "I hope you like football."
At first I didn't know what he meant until our ride down there I saw all
over the place "A" flags, representing the Alabama Crimson Tide.
It's a college neighborhood. There is red everywhere. Football is so
big over here its pretty much part of their godhead: Jesus Christ, Paul
Bryant (first coach), and Saban (Current coach). Its crazy here. It's
kind of funny though because we as missionaries would be praying that
Alabama would win a home game, otherwise the people here would be in a
really bad mood. There would be no body to contact or tract.
This week was kind of interesting, we got a referral about
somebody who wanted to learn more. We went to his apartment and he
wasn't there. So we start to tract the apartment. We knocked on this
door where this guy answered. He is going to school for law, and we
found he was a very liberal thinker, like my companion. As we talked
with him, he always had a smile on him and very receptive to what we
said. We told him we may drop by again to talk to him more.
We came back like 2 days later to see this referral we had. He
answered the door and taught him a little bit. We found out that he was
just interested in the facts of our scripture, so we gave him a book of
mormon and introduced it to him. He said he feels very prepared to
read it now haha. We gave him our number if he had any questions. I
don't think he is really going to be investigating the church. I guess
we'll see. We dropped by the law student's room again. We became
really good friends with him. He was comfortable to share his
questions, and we answered them. He is presbytarian and was interested
in how the leadership in the church was organized. He was able to
really understand what we say. We taught him the first lesson,
the restoration. We asked if he had questions, and he said, no that
makes sense. This guy is what we missionaries call, golden. We gave
him a book of mormon, he said he'll read it. We talked about baptism,
he said once he learns more he'll get baptized. So we set an
appointment with him to teach him more.
People here are really nice, even when they are part of another
religion. There was only one person I saw that didn't have a background
in a belief in God or Jesus Christ, he's chinese. We actually taught
him a lesson and the spirit was so strong there that I actually had to
take a break after to recap what just happened.
Dang it I got to go.
Well I'm doing great everybody.
Take care.
Jacob Miklich
Wednesday, October 10, 2012
how is everybody doing? It feels real nice to be out of the mtc right now. The first day was a little hectic cuz I was too stressed out to talk to people. But then once I got to the mission home, it started to get real relaxing. President and sister Holzapfel are awesome! The first thing Pres. Holzapfel told me was if I was able to talk to my parents. I told him I talked to my dad but not my mom. Next thing I knew he pulled out his phone and asked for her number. He was really thoughtful for that.
People here are real nice, from what I've seen so far. I've notice that some people will tell you straight up what is on their mind. But I tend to like it.
I must say, the food here is amazing pretty much every where I go.
Right now I am in Tuscaloosa, AL which will be a college area. The person training me is Elder Lacour, he told me I hope you like football cuz where we are going is where people worship it. Its weird to be somewhere where there was nothing but white people, and now it is just 50/50 white/black. I feel like I'm at home now haha.
My bike starting getting problems but i think its fixed now.
Well I got to go now, hope you all are doing well.
take care,
Jacob
ps.
My mailing address is 900 Hargrove Rd. Apt 121 Tuscaloosa, AL 35401
Tuesday, October 2, 2012
10/2/12
It is great to see things moving along back home. It is weird to say that I have been gone for 2 weeks now, it feels like yesterday that I left. Only one week left and I am gone once again! Time does feel irrelevant when being a missionary.
My teacher is still crazy and still a jerk but I love him.
A lot has happened since I have been here. and i dont have time to say it all, so ill just send pictures and try and explain. I got a companion who is alot like me. a member from my district had to go home, so one elder had to join my companionship, so now I am in a trio!! its weird.
Unfortunately I have to go, but take care all!
love you all
Jacob
My teacher is still crazy and still a jerk but I love him.
A lot has happened since I have been here. and i dont have time to say it all, so ill just send pictures and try and explain. I got a companion who is alot like me. a member from my district had to go home, so one elder had to join my companionship, so now I am in a trio!! its weird.
Unfortunately I have to go, but take care all!
love you all
Jacob
Tuesday, September 25, 2012
9/25/12
Oh my goodness so much has happened. The mtc is such an interesting place.
I
wish I could tell you all the things that have happened so far. The
first week in the mtc is crazzzy. I don't know if I am having a
different experience than Jeremy cuz it seems everything is jam packed
in these 3 weeks that I will be here.
The first day I was pretty much overwhelmed because of the drastic
change from being a normal kid to a dedicated full time missionary. So
many things could stress you out: you are being scheduled to do
something down to the very minute, studying ALOT, always being with your
companion, sometimes lack of sleep/ lack of appetite, and the list goes
on. Just when the first day was over and just when I was getting the
hang of things, the next day I got called as district leader.... It was
a little humbling experience. So I have more duties to do. Ask
melissa, she could probably explain.
In our time here, we are in a classroom for most of the time and
are assigned 2 to 3 teachers teaching us, one male and one female. One
of the teachers (the male teacher) I swear is border line crazy (in a
funny way). He has a very bold testimony. Every teacher has to be a
return missionary and be a byu student. This guy served his mission in
Birmingham Alabama, spanish speaking. I wish I could tell you all the
things I learned from this guy. Basically, the reason he is crazy is
because he will straight up say if you said the wrong answer, growing up
in the church you find out that there aren't really wrong answers but
apparently in Hermano Wright's class, there are now wrong answers. I
never had to try so hard. I guess going to serve in the states where the
church is getting a whole lot of attention, now more than ever help is
needed because more and more questions are being answered and people
need the right answers.
I'm begining to love my district. The exercising time is far from
challenging. The mtc food goes right through. (I actually thought I had
a problem losing my appetite because of stress). I learned that stress
is good because it will drive you to work, it gets bad when there is too
much stress to balance and it becomes distress.
One big thing that brother wright told us that when dealing with
investigators, you have to be careful about teaching people and not
lessons. Half the time when teaching investigators, the main thing that
will be going through their head is "Why the blank do I care?" So he
told us to listen to them and figuring out what they are thinking.
Thinking like an investigator.
Ah man I could go on and on. I may write a letter or something later on. Computers over here get pretty crowded.
Well I love you all, and until next week
Jacob.
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